With today’s skyrocketing bills, food and luxury goods’ prices, it is safe to say that times are tough for the common man. The word Sponsor is the latest wave in town and a section of ladies are keen to grab every opportunity that promises life on the first lane. We now have an increasing number of beautiful, young and energetic ladies with the potential of working their way up the economic ladder opting to depend on men for financial support. Majority of these men belong in the pensioners’ bracket.
Enjoying romantic getaways and receiving that pair of Christian Louboutin heels as a gift isn’t such a bad idea, right? Question is, is it worth it? At the end of the day whether he takes you for a ride on a yacht or flies you to the South of France, you are probably nothing but entertainment to him. Here is why you should run from Sponsors:
He demands more than what you are willing to give
If he is paying for your apartment, you will have to skip that special get together with family and friends to go meet him. Think of it as selling your soul for money. Failure to which you will end up back on the streets broke as a joke. He will own you, and you will be forced to obey the master.
He will leave you high and dry
Just because you are drop dead gorgeous, doesn’t mean you are the only fish in the sea. He is simply using you as entertainment and be sure that he will soon drop you fast and jump onto the next train. When this happens you are left with nothing but a high appetite for finer things that you can barely afford.
The expensive gifts don’t translate to caring
I know most women consider gifts as a mark of a caring man. This could be true in some cases but you can take this to the bank: a Sponsor spends on you because he wants something in return, period. The guy is loaded financially and a couple of trips overseas are but a drop in the ocean of his wealth. If you thought it’s because you are special to him, now you know.
You will never replace his wife
A sponsor’s wife maybe old and wrinkled but he will never leave her for you. Some of you might be asking why. Here is your answer: first, this woman helped him build his empire from scratch so she is an asset while on the other hand you are a liability- do the math! Also, separating from his wife would mean dividing his vast wealth into half. Who wants that? You guessed right, nobody!
He is ashamed of you
The main reason why he meets you in hotels, secluded clubs and takes you out of town on weekends to a remote safari lodge is because he cannot be seen with you. His usual social places in town are packed with business partners and family friends and taking you to these venues would tarnish his image. This means you can only be seen in private places, and he will never even take a single photo with you.
Bottom line is, everyone is fearfully and wonderfully made and the word dignity is food for every soul. Don’t stoop so low that you compromise your worth, work your way up and earn the respect of a good man. The writing is on the wall.