There’s no doubt that you’re into this man. You smile when you think about him. You keep on rehashing that conversation you had the other day. You can barely contain your excitement when you think of seeing him. You have the next meeting all planned out in your mind. You know what you will wear and which hairstyle to rock.
One problem though.
You’re not sure if he feels the same way. He keeps on sending mixed signals. You keep on having to make excuses to explain his behavior. They say that there is no doubt when a man loves a woman. Yet often, ladies choose to ignore those obvious and sometimes subtle signs that a man is not feeling them. You should walk away if:-
He’s always “too busy”
We all get too busy once in a while. But this man takes an unreasonable amount of time to return your calls and texts. He also rarely initiates conversation. Unless he’s unconscious somewhere, nothing else explains why replies well after 24 hours. If he can’t find time to squeeze some alone time, you need to stop wasting time.
You’ve never met anyone in his circle
He keeps on saying that he will soon introduce you to some of his relatives. That soon has never arrived and you have barely met any of his friends. To top this, he will come up with some amazing excuses to explain why he can’t meet those close to you. He wants to keep you as anonymous as possible so he can make a clean break without having any strings attached.
He gets in touch only on weekends
If his calls or visits come on Friday or Saturday night, it’s an outright sign that he sees you as a booty call. A man interested in getting between your sheets will come up with some awesome reasons why he has been silent. He will call you all those toe-curling names and get you blushing, only to disappear afterwards and continue the cycle on Friday.
He doesn’t know much about you
He’s aware that you have long legs and amazing bum but that’s as far as his knowledge of you goes. He has no clue what interests you. Your life is clueless to him. He has never asked much about your job or passions. You doubt that he pays attention when you describe something that’s important to you. He also doesn’t disclose much about himself.
You’re unsure where you lie
Women are said to have a good sixth sense about things. If your gut feeling is that this guy is toying with you, he probably is. Men aren’t that complicated. They are not a mathematical formula that needs to be solved. If he wants you, you will definitely know. Otherwise, you’re just a current distraction.