Guys, please take it easy at the bachelor’s party. I know how it looks on Hangover, where you have a whole set of adventure that you would not have had on your normal life, and when you finally get to the wedding the bride forgives you and the wedding goes on without a hitch.
Let’s look at this in real life.
You have paid a huge amount of money for a photographer on your wedding day, your bride to be made sure of this. Can’t blame her, these will be photos that you will show your family for generations. All your friends and relatives will be at the wedding, especially your future in-laws that you have convinced that you will take care of their daughter. In short, this is the day your wife to be has dreamt about all her life. If you love her, the best you can do is make it close to perfect.
At the bachelors party however, you realize that your guy slept with your girl years ago in college and you had no idea. If you watched the Movie BestMan, you know what I am talking about. We all grimaced as Morris Chestnut laid punches on Taye Diggs. Luckily, Taye Diggs was not the groom; otherwise I can’t imagine how it could have been.
All the same, boys have to have fun, before they are committed to one person for the rest of their lives. I’d suggest the guys have the party a few days before the wedding. A groom who is so hangover does not look good on camera. The wedding day also means you are on your feet all day and smiling, I assume a hangover makes you not do these with ease, right? (Never had one) Lastly, no bride wants to have you on their wedding photos looking like you got run over by a truck.
PS: She must really love you if she doesn’t walk out on you after she walked into the alter and finds you looking like that.