When most couples get married, they end up taking most things they do for granted. This is especially so for their sex lives. Couples tend to overlook certain important aspects of their marriage, such as their sex life. If you don’t want your sex life to be boring, here are five habits you must break at all costs.
Sticking to A Few Positions
When it comes to sex, you always like what you like because it makes you feel comfortable. There is nothing wrong with this but if you stick to the same position always, you will stop enjoying the sex and end up having it just for the sake of it. Your partner needs some excitement in bed and you should try new styles to spark this from time to time.
Sticking to a specific time
When you get married and start having kids, you will find that you are both busy and have less time for doing most of the things you love, including sex. In such situations, you end up sticking to a specific time of the day to have sex. This becomes more of a routine and it gets boring really quick.
To spice things up, change the time you have sex a bit and see how that goes. If you normally have time at night, try to squeeze it during the day when the kids are not around and I guarantee you will not be disappointed.
Not Talking About It
Most couples do not talk to their partners about sex and what they like or don’t like. Most will just stick to the “it was good” phrase. If you want to have good sex in your marriage, make sure you tell your partner how the sex was and what exactly made it good or bad. This is the only way both of you will know what the other likes and you can do something about it.
Not Initiating It
In most marriages, you will find that there is usually that one person who always initiates the sex. This should not be the case at all as the partner who does this may not feel appreciated or needed. Sex and marriage involves two people and that is what it should feel like if it is to be great and last long.
The kids in your bed
If you want to have a great sex life, you should not sleep with the kids in your bed neither should you sleep with the door open. This does not give you the privacy you need to get in the mood. Without the privacy, you will realize that you are rarely in the mood and this affects your sex life going forward.