We all get needy from time to time when we need love and attention from our loved ones. When a new love interest calls you get all fuzzy on the inside but with time you may notice the attention is in larger, clingy doses. Your man could be needy and it took some time to realize. Here are some signs he could be.
He is always talking to you
Girls like a good morning message, someone to check how you are doing and at least a goodnight text. This guy however constantly calls and texts throughout the day. He knows where you spent your day, where you were at lunch hour, what exact time you left the office and where you passed through before you got home. Some girls may take this as a sign that he is interested in your life, but there is a limit to it.
He wants to move things very quickly
Before your third date he is already talking of you moving in. He wants to rush things, saying they want to be with you there is no time to waste. This is to cover for his needy self where he cannot be by himself; he needs to be with someone. In most cases if you ask, his past relationship was shortly before you came into the picture. He had not been single for long. Well, you should be cautious, listen to people whose relationships have not worked out and most will tell you that everything happened so fast.
He gives unreasonable ultimatums
I remember watching an episode of The Hills where Jason gave Lauren what I would call an unreasonable ultimatum. Lauren was sent to Paris for a month by the magazine she worked for while Jason wanted them to spend the summer in his new condo. He told her she could go to Paris and forget about their relationship or she could move in and they live happily ever after. I was horrified when Lauren gave in and gave up a once in a lifetime chance to go to Paris and moved in instead. No need to insist that they broke up less than 3 months after.
He is all over your social networks and passwords
He demands for your passwords in social network accounts, emails, and phone. Some couples like sharing their passwords, but give it as you will not because they demanded for it. If a man knows every post you made on your social networks, and who commented on it, well girl, he is a needy one.
He has trust issues
He is always seeking reassurance from you that you actually do love him and want to be with him. He cannot trust you to be out there with friends on your own. He insists on going through your phone to make sure you are not doing something inappropriate. He will tag along with you and the girls just to make sure you don’t respond to any guy’s catcalls. He picks fights over little things, like you did not pick his calls and respond soon enough.
Is your man showing any of these signs?