At some point in life, most of us will want a family and a good husband/wife. So whether you have been dating for years or months, what really matters is finding that one person who is a husband/wife material.
Well, ladies here are 7 types of men you might need to consider walking down the aisle with.
An Honest Man
Honesty is one of the key values of a happy marriage. When dating a guy, be keen on details like honesty. If he has lied to you over and over again in the past, you can be pretty sure that he will keep on lying even after you get married. But who wants to be committed to a habitual liar? On the other hand, if the guy is one who keeps it real at all times then consider him a marriage material.
A Man That Respects You
Before making him your husband, girl you have to feel that he respects you. If a man respects you, then your marriage will definitely work. On the other hand, if he doesn’t have any respect for you, your marriage is likely to have a rocky path. Love comes with respect. How can you love someone you do not respect? Let him respect you before putting that ring on your finger.
A Man Who Is Not a Stalker
Most people are obsessed with stalking their partners. Whether its phone stalking or Facebook stalking, this is the kind of behavior you should not condone. Stalking your partner is a sign of insecurity, jealousy and paranoia. If your boyfriend is a stalker, then am sorry he is not a husband material.
A Man Who Communicates
At some point in your relationships, fights will ensue. Maybe over money, children, in-laws e.t.c. However, for any of these fights to have a positive outcome, you have to learn how to communicate. Raising your voice or turning petty issues into bigger problems is never wise. Ladies, a good man handles problems by communicating not arguing. In addition, if he listens to you if you have something to say, then that is the man you might want to spend the rest of your life with.
A Financially Responsible Man
A man who shows responsibility with his money is definitely a husband material. No matter how huge or little his income, he has to know how to spend it. There needs to be a financial plan for your future, so do not go for the extravagant type.
A Romantic Man
Love is beautiful, and so should marriage. When you focus on each other’s needs (even your sexual needs) you will have a healthy relationship. A good man will make you feel special whether it’s just the two of you or you are in the company of other people. However, if he acts like you are not even around, then there is a problem.
A God Fearing Man
Like the bible says ‘The Fear of the Lord is the beginning of wisdom.’ Before God, friends and family, the two of you will be united as husband and wife.